Prayer 101 : Getting Started

The practical guidelines below are the first basic steps I took – the prep work – towards building a regular and consistent prayer life.

If you begin by following a few of them, your prayer life will improve but do remember that for your prayer life to really take off, you will need to be consistent and persevere.

Lord, Teach us to pray!

Jesus is our teacher. If you desire to improve your prayer life, ask the Lord for the grace to grow. Pray for an outpouring of the Holy Spirit in your prayer life and ask for the presence of the Holy Spirit to enlighten your mind and ignite your heart. He is closer that you think.

Make a commitment and stick to it

To know our Lord and understand His heart, we need to spend time with Him in prayer. There are no shortcuts.

We have an open invitation from the Lord, ‘Call to me and I will answer you.’ (Jeremiah 33:3) and we have a promise that He hears us: ‘You will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.’ (Jeremiah 29:12).

Once you decide to prioritise prayer and make it a part of your day, you give yourself that space to walk closer with the Lord and more importantly, for Him to do His work in you.

Don’t be too ambitious

Just sitting down to pray can be challenging for many of us.

For a start, set a realistic goal to make it achievable. For example, begin with 30 minutes a day, and build it up from there. Once you grow and progress in your prayer experience, you will want to extend this time to an hour and beyond.

Set a time

Prayer is a practice that requires discipline and perseverance.  Pray at the same time every day, if possible. Make it part of your regular routine and it will soon become habit. Write it into your schedule, consider it a fixed appointment that you will keep with Jesus, and stick to it.

Set a Place

Choose a specific place to pray away from distractions so you can concentrate. Ringing phones and crying children will sabotage your “quiet time” even before you get started.

Make Prayer Active

Prayer becomes a chore only if you treat it as such. It is your special time to connect with the Lord.  Take steps towards making your time with Him meaningful. Light your Easter candle to create a sense of sacredness. Or have soothing music play softly in the background before you begin, to help you relax and ease into prayer.

Keep a prayer journal to record your personal reflections. If you choose to, make a list of your prayer requests and stop to pray for each petition. You may even wish to write a prayer letter to the Lord. A prayer journal builds faith when you look back over your petitions and recall what the Lord has done for you.

Read the Word of God

Prayer is not a one way street. Have you ever been in a one-sided conversation with someone who talked non-stop without listening to you? That didn’t go very far, did it? We do the same thing when we pray without reading the Bible.

The Word of God is His letter of wisdom and love to each one of us. Reading scripture helps us to get to know God and breathes life into our prayers.

Start by reflecting on the Gospel reading of the day and praying over a verse that speaks to you. Or you can simply turn to the Psalms or words of St. Paul’s letters give you specific prayers for yourself and the people you love. If you desire to have an effective conversation with God, you need to read the Bible.

Don’t Give Up!

So how about getting started today? Don’t lose heart if fall off the wagon– just simply start again and get back on track. Remember – it starts with a commitment and your ‘yes’ to God.  In upcoming issues of Our Pilgrimage, we will share more tips on how to make the most of your time with the Lord in prayer.

By Cheryl Sim